Showing posts with label questionnaire. Show all posts
Showing posts with label questionnaire. Show all posts

Thursday, July 12, 2012

the questionnaire...


Next up: Meet Ann Taylor Reed.  I was so excited when ATR (as she is known around the SEC circle) agreed to take the questionnaire.  I can think of no one who better fits the description of a true southern belle than Ann Taylor Reed...Sweet, fun, charming, kind and down to earth: she is the whole package!  Enjoy her story and be sure to leave a comment or a question below. 

Name:  Ann Taylor Reed

Hometown:  Mobile, AL

A little about you: I went to the University of Alabama for a BA in Communication and Baruch College for an MPA in Policy Analysis/Evaluation.  I love my job as a college admissions advisor, watching Alabama football games in the fall, and eating the awesome Chinese take-out you can only get in NYC.

I moved to NYC  July 1, 2004. That day was incredibly hot, scary and exciting.

My best NYC memory is going to a Rolling Stones concert at Radio City Music Hall.  I was lucky enough to get tickets from my then-boss, and the combination of seeing an iconic band in an iconic location was so exciting and memorable.  It was definitely an "only in New York!" kind of experience.

My worst NYC memory is when a major blizzard hit the city the week before Christmas in 2009, completely ruining my plans to spend a week in Mobile for Christmas.  Instead, I had to fly down on Christmas morning and was only there for two days.  I love when it snows, but that was an unpleasant week.


My favorite thing to do in the city is people-watch. Everywhere you go, there are so many interesting, unique people that you can be entertained people-watching for hours.

Preferred method of transportation Usually, the subway.  It's generally the quickest, most cost-effective way to get around...except when they change everything up on the weekends!

What do you miss most about home? 
I miss my family and the slower pace of life.  
I miss being able to hop in my own car and drive everywhere.  (Or better yet, just having a car and being able to throw everything in the back seat, instead of carting your gym clothes, lunch, packages to be mailed, book to read, purse, and anything else you need for the day around like a pack mule.)

Favorite Southern saying? might could: "We might could swing by the dry cleaner on the way to the grocery store."  (I have no idea if that is a Southern saying, but my Connecticut husband swears that no one in the North says it.)

I never leave home without subway card, lipstick, cell phone, and a sweater.

I never had someone else do my laundry until I moved to New York. For the first several years I lived here, I took my laundry to a laundry service rather than doing it myself at a laundromat.  My mother and friends from home thought I was nuts, but it was convenient and saved a lot of time.

Favorite meal/restaurant in the city: anything at Gramercy Tavern for special occasions and chicken and broccoli with pork fried rice at my neighborhood Chinese restaurant for comfort food

Favorite meal/restaurant at home: BBQ sandwiches from The Brick Pit and anything seafood at Felix's Fish Camp on Mobile Bay

Where do you see yourself in 5 years? In 5 years, I'd love to be living in Raleigh, NC with a kid or two.  North Carolina is halfway between my family in Alabama and my in-laws in Connecticut, so we've agreed to settle down there in the next 3-5 years.  I love working for a college, so I'd love to continue that, but in a place that's a little more similar to where I grew up than NYC.  We'll make frequent trips back to New York though, since so many of our fun memories were made here!

Any last advice? Don't fear the outer boroughs!  I've been very Manhattan-centric during most of my time here, but now I've been a Brooklynite for two months, and the other boroughs have a lot to offer.  Some of my new favorite places to eat are right down the street in Park Slope, Brooklyn, and there are great places to shop and things to do.  I used to think that Brooklyn, Queens, or (heaven forbid) the Bronx were far away and undesirable, but they offer a lot of interesting local flavor that can enhance your NYC experience.  Get out and explore!


Thanks ATR!  
Have a question for ATR or want to nominate a friend?  Email me here or just leave a note below!  

xo...

ki

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

the questionnaire...


About nine and a half years ago, a scrawny brunette landed at LaGuardia Int'l Airport in the middle of a blizzard of epic proportions.  She dragged her 70 pound suitcase to the taxi stand, hopped into a cab and she was off to the 92nd Street Y, where she would live for the next several months...
The city was tough...her job was tougher.  And she was broke.  I mean really broke.  But she didn't care.  She was living her dream and she was going to be a fashion designer come hell or high water! {cue the Lavern and Shirley theme song: We're gonna make our dreams come true...Doin' it our way....}
But I digress...
It's been a long road.  Sometimes it has been unbearably tough, but in between, this city has produced moments so magical that I couldn't bear the thought of leaving.  Making amazing friends, meeting my husband, having a baby...this city really has been my oyster.  And while I found my wings in New York, my roots will always be in the South where they belong.  I am a Southern Child (or mommy, I should say now) in the City! One of the best parts about being a Southern Child in the City is meeting fellow SCitC's and sharing our stories.  Last year before pea brain took over, I started the Southern Child Questionnaire and I am very proud to announce that it is Back!

Meet my good friend and, soon to be, Southern Mom in the City, Kerri.  Kerri's adventurous, fun loving spirit told me that she was the perfect person to reopen the questionnaire.  Enjoy and be sure to drop by Kerri's blog and send her a tweet!    

Name: Kerri
a sign just outside of Kerri's apartment...
so very very NYC!

Twitter handle:  @ugakerri

Blog link:  adingrup.blogspot.com

Hometown: Atlanta, GA

A little about you:
I’ve been a resident of NYC for almost 9 years now, and I consider myself a ‘Misplaced Southerner’, not a New Yawhker. I’m an avid sports fan, specifically college football with a slight insanity for my own team -  the Georgia Bulldogs. (Go Dawgs!) I’m currently pregnant with my first child and have no idea what I’m doing. My biggest concern so far is not how to dress, feed or change this child, but that I will go into labor prematurely because I can’t control my heart rate/blood pressure during gamedays.

I moved to NYC August  2003. That day was super hot and I spent it looking at apartments. It was one week after the Blackout of 2003 so I missed the insanity by ‘that much’…

My best NYC memory is...
It’s hard to name one specific day, but I will say when I went to the Heisman Ceremony in 2008. It was so cool to be up close to so many legends. We sat behind Barry Switzer and he told my husband he had “outkicked his coverage”.

My worst...

can’t recall a specific event, but I’m sure it has something to do with cold, wind, snow or rain.

My funniest NYC memory is...

Brooklyn Brewery Beer Prom 2006. My friend Hutto and I went, he in a powder blue tuxedo and I was in a bright blue sequin and ruffled dress (matching blue eye shadow). Our friends – dressed like PE Teacher Chaperones - switched the signs for ‘spiked’ and ‘extra spiked’ punch and insanity ensued. We were later crowned Prom King & Queen, a title that still appears on my resume today.

My favorite thing to do in the city is...
Explore! Can’t beat a great walk in the sunshine…

Preferred method of transportation: my own two feet. 

What do you miss most about home?
Chick-fil-a, white cheese dip and driving

Favorite Southern saying?
y’all  please use it in a sentence :)
Please pass the grits, y’all.
(seriously, can there be a more convenient word ever created? Also, note the appropriate apostrophe location. It is a contraction of you + all = y’all. NOT ya’ll. Thankyouverymuch.)

I never leave home without
 my phone. I feel naked without my phone.  
I never cared if people walked on the left or right side of the sidewalk until I moved to New York.
This is very important. The rules of the road apply to the sidewalks of NYC. If you’re slow move over, dammit.

Favorite meal/restaurant in the city:
Sushi Lounge on St Marks & A, or the Chicken Man halal cart on 53rd & 6th

Favorite meal/restaurant at home:

Chick-fil-A!!

Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

I’d love to be back in the South soaking up the sunshine and football Saturdays with my family.  I’ll have at least one kid, maybe 2 by then (no minivan though, thanks!). I would like to still be working, but have a nice work-life balance; i.e. one that keeps me going mentally, yet still plenty of time to raise my kids.
J Hopefully I have traveled to either Thailand or Africa by then.

Any last advice?
 
1.     You need rain boots, a good umbrella and a poof coat. I don’t care how ugly they are, you need a poof coat.  {amen to that}
2.     New York can be the most crowded and yet most lonely place you’ll ever be, so surround yourself with a good group of friends and you’ll be just fine.

 One last question just for you...
You have become quite famous among your friends for your football season tweets.  Come this football season you will be a southern mom in the city like me...do you think you will be able to keep up your Game Day tweets with a little one in your lap??? 
 I’m sure as hell going to try! I’m pretty sure my husband will be assigned ‘baby duty’ during games. J

Thanks Kerri!    
If you or anybody you know would like to take the questionnaire, add a question or just speak your mind, email me here.  Looking forward to hearing from ya'! 

xo...
ki 

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

the southern child questionnaire...

It's time for our next installment of questionnaire!
Fashion designer and co-founder of Sara Claire and Esther, Aimee Mars has kindly volunteered to tell us a little about herself.
Enjoy!

Mrs. Mars designed an aubergine gown
for her October '09 wedding.
She resides on the upper east side
with her husband and puppy, Dixie.
Hometown:  Huntsville, Alabama 


A little bit about you:  As far back as I can remember I've always wanted to move to New York.  I decided at a young age to move to the city and pursue my artistic dreams, and as I got older those dreams turned towards fashion.  Every decision I made was one to aid in getting me to New York.  I've been here for over  8 years now and have love and hated every minute.  The City has built my character and molded me into the person I am today.  Throughout the years I've taken steps towards living my dreams of being in fashion, but in this moment I can actually see those dreams falling into place.


I moved to NYC  January 3, 2003.  That day was frigid!!!


My best NYC memory is getting engaged in Central Park.


My worst...Looking back everything seemed so bad at the time, but now it doesn't seem that way at all.  I would say living here with no money, but we were all so creative we found ways to have fun.


My funniest NYC memory is...You have to have a sense of humor to live here so it's tough to pinpoint one memory.  I would have to say my 27th birthday party.  It started at Chealsea Brewing Co. and then we traveled to the Maritime.  The entire night was one big humorous mess and I have pictures to prove it!


My favorite thing to do in the city is... Saturday brunch, late night dining and drinks with friends.


Preferred method of transportation:  The bus.  The subway makes my skin crawl.


What do you miss about home?  Family, food and a simpler way of life.


Favorite Southern saying:  "I do declare!"


I never leave home without my blackberry.  I would say keys, but that's not true....which is why half of my friends have a set (way cheaper than a locksmith!)


I was never in a hurry until I moved to New York.


Favorite meal/restaurant in the city:  OTTO. I have some of the best memories with friends there.


Favorite meal/restaurant at home:  Momma Goldberg's and Chick-fil-A


Where do you see yourself in 5 years?  Here...just closer to the park.


Any last advice?  Stick it out.  Don't leave when it gets hard because victory is always just around the corner.  If you can make it here you can make it anywhere!


Thanks Aimee!  Visit Sara Claire and Esther's Facebook fan page for more information....

To participate or nominate a friend for the questionnaire, please contact me at asouthernchild@gmail.com.

xo...
ki

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Where did the time go?

This month marks my 8th anniversary in this big big city...
Eight years ago, my plane landed in the middle of a snow storm and I dragged one big suit case into the 92nd Street Y, where I lived with BFF for the next six months until I (notice that was singular, as in not "we") was evicted, and we were forced to find an apartment in three days.  Two very nice men (who have remained good friends to this day) took pity on the two of us and leased us an apartment that we lived in for several years to come.  We had no furniture, cable, pots and pans...anything really.  One suitcase each was the sum of our belongings...I slept on the floor for six months before getting a mattress and BFF slept on an air mattress for a year...things were definitely not easy.

It's a funny thing...I love it here.  I call New York my home, but I have definitely had a fight getting here.  I wish all the time that there had been someone to tell me a little bit about their story...Warn me that it would be a little tough; people would be mean occasionally; I would be so frustrated that I would be considering jobs in California...but that inevitably New York would find it's way into my veins, and that one day I wouldn't be able to live without this incredibly annoying, overwhelming, impossible at times city.

So to that, I have decided to ask a different southern child to tell a little bit about their story, questionnaire style, each month in hopes that future southern children (or west coast, mid west, Canadian, Australian...whatever) will see that we all come to New York in the same boat.  It's not an easy one, but it is the most amazing experience that anyone could ever hope for.   In an effort to break the ice, I'll be taking the questionnaire first, so without further ado, introducing...







The Southern Child Questionnaire

Hometown: Born in Huntsville AL and raised in Albany GA...I consider them both to be home.
I moved to NYC January 2003. (can't remember the exact date) That day was freezing and snowy, and I was wearing stilettos and very lightweight peacoat...everything else was a blur.
My best NYC memory is...I have a lot, but a great memory is when I turned 26, D took me to see the Nutcracker at Lincoln Center and then to the River Cafe for dinner.  It was one of those quintessential Christmas in New York nights...it even started snowing on our way home.  
My worst NYC memory is...Probably just being so broke the first year that I never knew if I'd make it to my next paycheck.  I remember crying a lot, but somehow I always managed to make it...I never bounced a single check.
My funniest NYC memory is...Where do I even start?  There have been so many funny stories...it's hard to pick one. Maybe living with BFF in the 92nd Street Y.  What wouldn't be funny about two very naive Southern girls living in a Hebrew dormitory among the most diverse group of foreign exchange students you could imagine?  BFF's temporary roommate (before I arrived) kept sushi grade tuna in the mini fridge in their teeny weeny dorm room.  There was also a girl who bathed in a bowl in the community showers everyday, and to make matters worse, carried that stupid bowl around like a three year old carries a security blanket.  It was so weird!  I could go on...From top to bottom, it was the strangest six months of my life!
My favorite thing to do in the city is... well, if you asked me a few years ago, I would have said going dancing with my girlfriends.  We had so much fun! But now, probably trying new restaurants and new types of cuisine with D...I could try a new place everyday for the rest of my life and never run out of options.  
My preferred method of transportation is walking..I walk everywhere.  Subway if I absolutely have to.
What do you miss about home?
Nanny's cooking, the weather, my car...
What's your favorite Southern saying?
"Bless his/her heart, ..." I still catch myself saying it all the time.
I never leave home without a little umbrella in my bag--leaving home without an umbrella basically guarantees that it will rain--my cellphone, and something to read on the subway.
I never yelled at someone until I moved to New York.  It took six months for this person to push me to my absolute limit, and I threw up afterwards.  I don't like to be mean, and a good southern belle doesn't yell...it was so traumatic.
My favorite meal/restaurant in the city: sushi.  It's the first thing I get when I return from a long trip.  Nobu Next Door is my favorite neighborhood spot, and Sapporo East is the best cheap sushi in the city.
My favorite meal/restaurant at home: a home cooked meal from my maternal grandmother, Nanny, complete with creamed corn, fried okra, green beans, fresh tomatoes, and pecan pie for desert.
Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
Oy...I don't know.  I didn't think I would make it three years in New York, and here I am.   I have a feeling I'll be right here, but as long as I'm still designing, painting and writing I'll be okay anywhere...
Any last piece of advice?
Buy a coat!  Invest in something warm and durable.  You will spend more time in this than anything else in your closet.  Trust me...

If you would like to take the questionnaire or would like to nominate a friend in the city to participate, please email me at asouthernchild@gmail.com.

xo...
ki